First things first, I am not a medical professional. Anything but. What I am though is a mother navigating the parental minefield who, a little confused following some recent GP advice, a little reluctant to administer more ‘stuff’, took to my little corner of the internet, to the ‘instamum’ community, to do what I desperately wanted to do: just hear from another mama or two. Like some sort of souped up Google, Instagram has become a real source of information for me, a legitimate place to seek answers (and I’m not just talking the best recipe for breakfast smoothie – though I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t looked that up) It means I no longer have to trawl through the internet or make a reluctant call back to the GP only to be put on hold for 20 minutes before being accidentally hung up on, I now feel that I (and I hope any mums reading this feel the same) can put a question or issue out there and receive some sort of wisdom – or at the very least – a small yellow fist pump back.
And d’ya know what, it seems like I’m not the only confused one out there on this issue. The response to the post was amazing – so firstly, thank you. And secondly, I thought it would make sense to gather all the comments from Instagram and Facebook and create one blog post summarising the ‘key themes’ (can you tell I miss studying?) and tips that emerged.
So here goes, I hope you enjoy this #crowdsourcedmamawisdom
Here’s my original post:
And another thing… my GP recently told me I should be giving the kiddos a multivitamin. Abidec. Dalivit. Whichever. But I’m confused – especially for Sonny – as I thought he was getting all he needed from my breastmilk 🙄Mamas, do I really need to give my kids this gross orange syrup stuff? Surely if they have a balanced diet it’s ok? Is there anything else more natural? Also do YOU take any supplements? And finally, lion heart liquid…not some new boy band but a fish oil I think? Pls talk to me (and each other) 🤗✨🙏🏻💃🏾
And here’s what you have to say about the issue:
- First thing first, loads of you said that you don’t give your children any vitamins at all. And guess what, they’re fine…
- They’re also a pain to remember to give – many of us have them but forget to give them
- Many of them smell bad, stain clothes (@wheatleysian gives them in the bath – genius idea!), contain sweeteners / colourings (thank you for pointing that out @nicky_duffell…the colour of Abidec alone freaks me out) not to mention bovine gelatine so won’t work for vegans/veggies/kosher families (thanks @philippa_harris)
- The general consensus is that healthy diet is what counts – @just_entrepeneurs always makes sure the food she gives her kids is fortified, so lots of spinach for example, @missclairebell1 gives orange juice which helps the body absorb iron, @theskygardens and @motherbeastie give green smoothies (and hide probiotic powder in them – genius!)
- That said, some of you give vitamins as a boost to the immune system and for reasons such as when your little one may be unwell (@nicole_pj), when they start nursery (@scottishclare and @janinerenee ‘s mum both suggest this), perhaps just when they’re having an “off day” (@babaganuj – she swears by it) or if they’re re not eating well.
- Vitamin D seems the main important one that breastfed babies and us lot living in the cold UK are lacking – @foxcubinthewoods writes “something crazy like 85% of people in the UK are vit D deficient”
- Indeed, much like @Lbrickmore, I was expecting some good back slapping after telling the GP that I was breastfeeding – instead I was told that because I breastfed Sonny he was actually not getting enough of something. As @bubble_bubble110 says, they push “breast as best” but… well yes, according to the NHS guidelines, vitamin D doesn’t pass through breast milk so breastfed babies may need some extra help
- Unless giving formula milk – which is fortified with Vitamin D – and once you start weaning / giving cows milk, multivitamins are also recommended
- Also just generally spend as much time as possible outdoors. Or as @emmaayncardwell suggests, let’s hang out naked in a sunspot by the window. I’m in. According to @theeggboxparent’s GP, 20 minutes of sunshine equates to a weeks worth of vitamin D!
So what are the options:
- Try BetterYou sprays says @nicky_duffell, there are Boots drops that you can drop straight on to the nipple, Viridian drops, Biocare do a baby vitamin A, D, C & zinc dropper (thanks @healthy_sprouts!)
- Or move to Sweden or to live with @sophiecummings – @littlebearsabroad tells us they get free vitamin D oil from the HV from birth and Sophie gets them free from her UK childrens centre
- Some of you mums also take a multivitamin or probiotics (provean or viridian says @youngorganic), @k.marshall.92 takes codliver oil, biocare do a supplement called AnteNatal Forte, @myproteinwoman do something called “active woman” with vitamin D and other vitamins
In conclusion, as with so many motherhood-related things, there is no conclusion. It’s confusing! And maybe it’s always going to be confusing. Opinion is always changing – as @bubble_bubble110 says, it’ll change again by bedtime. Get official advice here, take a blood test to really be sure what your kid / you lack and most importantly, go with your gut. Finally, good luck to @badasshappylifecoach who is training to get a degree in nutrition and then can hopefully give all of us a definitive answer one day!